Giggle, Snicker, Snort…

Before I retired I found buckets of time for reading, one of my favorite pastimes. Since hanging up my scalers, there is insufficient time. For reading. And, I’m starved for it.

I have a hard time reading during the day. It’s a personality flaw (the only one, I’m sure). Days are supposed to be filled with cleaning the house, preparing meals, grocery shopping, laundry and so forth, right? (Giggle, snicker, snort.) Or, volunteering at the library, soup kitchen, or taking in every stray animal I find (we live in the country=dumping ground for pets=you do the math).

Then SHE showed up. Again. Inner Martha. She’s been hanging around since I retired and she pains me in my hind quarters. I feel her glare, the heavy dose of guilt when I think of reading. Dagnabbitz. Reading screams leisure time, even though I’VE EARNED IT. (The battle continues and it’s ugly. My right eye started twitching yesterday, bordered on a seizure, and I may have perspired, but I predict Karen will win).

Thinking creatively, I decided to make this a goal, to make time for reading. For my master’s I had to read, had to write, had to research. That was in addition to reading for pleasure, an escape from the pressure of academic success, doing well. My inner nerd was happy. Since retiring, other pressures have surfaced. Dagnabbitz.

So: I’ve created a new category, A BIT OF LIT, where I hope you will share with me some of your good reads. Here are a coupla my recent distractions.

I was drawn to this one having been to Brazil, twice. During his adventures blazing a trail across this enormous continent, through deserts and jungles, do you think he is bitten by a snake? Between the people he met, learning Portuguese, the “food,” the red tape of travel, and creatures he encountered, I could not put this one down.

current reads_May 2016 (5)I started reading author Joshilyn Jackson with her Back Seat Saints. I adored that one due to her writing style; she made me feel as though I’d jumped into an existing conversation. Love that. The story deals with domestic abuse, which I did not want to read, but, the ending was perfect (no spoiler here). I’ve just started this one (below), my third of her books. They’ve just taken down a tree in the yard, only to discover jaw bones. A baby’s jaw bone.

current reads_May 2016 (3)I found Walking the Amazon the same day I found this fabulous book about the bond between women and their grandmothers. Used bookstores at the beach are simply the best. This collection is filled with stories and poems about women and their grandmothers.

After I began blogging, an unexpected connection surfaced between my grandmother and me, even though she passed when I was 18; yet, I could not get enough of this book. Have you thought about the bond between you and your grandmother? What would you tell her if she were here today? Simply, this is rich. A gem.

current reads_May 2016 (1)I have never read Laura Moriarty, but my mother handed this to me last week, said she couldn’t put it down. It’s about mothers and daughters, relationships, what happens when tragedy strikes. It gives me a lot to think about. My mom is 87. I’ve been thinking about that, too. A lot. Any mother with a teenage daughter will relate to this story. Or, anyone who drives, or anyone who has parents.

current reads_May 2016 (4)You may remember that Ralph and I are tight.

Tell them, dear, that if eyes were made for seeing, then Beauty is its own excuse for being…

Oh, my….can’t get enough of that. Here’s where you may have seen this before.

As a birthday gift this past week, my son and his wife gave me the following.

So. What the heck? Who says I have to read the whole time? Giggle, snicker, snort…

current reads_May 2016 (2)REQUEST: Please share with me some of your favorites, whether a current read or a past favorite. Shall we start a book club?

  22 comments for “Giggle, Snicker, Snort…

  1. November 30, 2016 at 10:36 pm

    I used to love reading novels but haven’t read a single one for about 3 years.. I need to get back to reading for pleasure too, without feeling guilty! The problem is if I wait until I go to bed to read, I fall asleep after the first few lines and never get beyond page 1… an age thing I think..haha! x

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    • December 1, 2016 at 11:51 am

      My problem is that I fall asleep BEFORE I hit the bed, as in my comfy chair in the family room, and by the time I hit the hay, I don’t feel like reading. Aging is funky, no? πŸ˜‰

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      • December 1, 2016 at 12:35 pm

        haha – Yep – I’m regularly ‘snoring’ on the sofa! ‘Funky’ – yep! x


  2. May 16, 2016 at 7:35 am

    Always love a good book review. I’ve learned that my taste in books is not always what someone else likes. I usually wait for a book to fall off the shelf at me. Never had a relationship with a grandmother for the most part. They each died when I was in a different country from them when I was quite young. And I’ve not been blessed to be a grandmother. I had a great aunt who acted as a surrogate for a year of my life and treasured that. I do read a lot and will tell about my books but so many are self help, non-fiction. Though I love a good light mystery or a well told story. The books are stacked so deep by my bed and on the shelves that I wonder if I’ll ever get them read before the next delicious book gets bought. πŸ™‚ I’ll take a look at those you recommended. Thanks from this book hoarder. πŸ˜‰

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    • May 16, 2016 at 8:32 am

      So many thoughts here, Marlene. Thanks for your heartfelt comment. I’m not yet a gramma yet either, but I had several great role models. I was born 7 years after my great grandma passed, but I am getting to know her through the many letters she wrote (between 1940 and 1952). I’m talking hundreds. And she wasn’t kind, hence the series I started about her. But, as far as getting to know those who have passed, this was an incredible gift (as it also details my father’s childhood). My dad’s mother Lalla was a fabulous grandma.

      You may have seen me mention my great aunt Hazel, my grandmother’s sister. Hazel was also a gramma to me, and I am grateful I had so much time with her when I was young. Hazel never had children, so we became like her own grandchildren. Imagine how that must have felt to her, not just my sister and I, who greatly benefited from having her in our lives.

      The grandmother book includes two pages of thought-provoking questions in the end, one of which is to write a letter to your grandma and tell her the things you wish you could say if she were really here now. I love that. You could write to or about your great aunt.

      Oh, you would laugh if you saw the books I have here. It worsened when my mother moved two years ago. We ended up taking two truck loads to the library for donation after we scoured and scoured through them ourselves, and sold many. I cannot get rid of them; it’s like cutting off an arm.

      So, let me know what you have enjoyed reading as well. I also have a varied taste in what I read; that makes it more interesting. πŸ™‚

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      • May 16, 2016 at 9:24 am

        I have written briefly about my great aunt who was pretty much like a grandmother. She raised the rest of my grandmother’s children after she died. They were sisters and my aunt never had children either. Interesting. Books and reading are what I live for and don’t get quite enough time for it these days. As an old woman, you would think I had nothing else to do. 😦 Not happening. You are inspiring me to write a bit more, ASAP! πŸ™‚

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  3. May 15, 2016 at 10:19 am

    Thanks for the wonderful reviews. I just put For She is the Tree of Life on my list of books to look for at the library next week. I’ve written so much about my grandmother over the years, and I think that I’d really enjoy this book.

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    • May 15, 2016 at 10:49 am

      You’re most welcome, Sheryl. The book is a lovely collection. In the back of my copy I found a couple of pages with thought-provoking questions about the relationship we have with our grandmothers. That was a fabulous find for me. Enjoy and let me know how you like the book. πŸ™‚


  4. May 14, 2016 at 10:50 am

    What an awesome idea! Book reviews!! I really want to read that grandma one you suggested!

    I joined a local summer book club and we’re reading the Anne of Green Gables series. I have to get reading as soon as we get back! Ha!

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    • May 14, 2016 at 11:28 am

      That is one of my daughter’s favorite series. We bought a few last year (the same day I found the grandma book and the Amazon book), but Jane Austin gets the prize; it’s her ultimate favorite. I just can’t get into those. It is funny what we relate to, what draws us.

      I think you would love the grandmother book. I just fell in love with the idea and the writings. Many authors have contributed.

      So, yes, let’s get a club going here. πŸ™‚

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      • May 14, 2016 at 11:42 am

        I’ll do a book club with you.

        I’ve never read the Green Gables books, I’m not sure how I’ll do. Funny what you said about Jane Austin, I can’t make myself read those… Ha! I’ll have to round up that grandmother book for sure.


        • May 14, 2016 at 11:48 am

          FABULOUS!! I am so glad. πŸ™‚
          OK, post some of your favorites and let’s see where this goes.
          I started one of the Anne books and stopped after a few pages. Just lost interest.

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          • May 14, 2016 at 12:05 pm

            We’re on our way home from beach, after we get home, I’ll find some books I’ve read. πŸ™‚


            • May 14, 2016 at 12:08 pm

              Yes, I see you’ve embarked for home. Hope the trip goes well. OK, post away! Love this idea. πŸ™‚

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            • May 14, 2016 at 12:11 pm

              Books and recipes are my thing!!

              Thanks. We’re in Arkansas now. Four hours to go. πŸ™‚


            • May 14, 2016 at 12:16 pm

              I hope you have plenty of Cheetos and Rolos for the trip…

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            • May 14, 2016 at 12:23 pm

              Ha ha!! I wish! Just ordered a salad.


            • May 14, 2016 at 1:16 pm



  5. Amy
    May 13, 2016 at 1:58 pm

    I am nodding in recognition. I love to read and thought I would read much more once I retired. But I also find I cannot read during the day in my house. On the beach, on vacation, yes, but somehow when I am home, I don’t think to pick up a book and read. I’m not even doing chores instead 90% of the time. I am doing genealogy, writing, getting exercise, volunteering. My pleasure reading is still at night. So odd!

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    • March 21, 2018 at 3:46 pm

      I’m the same, Amy. Exactly. I still have not found time to read, or just don’t want to, during the day. In my case, the chores are not done more than 90% of the time here….and that ain’t gonna change. πŸ˜‰

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